There is a part of this story that doesn’t make any sense to me, but before I get to that here is a lesson for all women. When you are totally dependent on a man, you have no power.
If that man ends up replacing you or gets bored with you, then what are you going to do?
This is the hard lesson that Ms. Lopez learned but I will tell you why I don’t feel any sympathy for her if these facts are true.
The 24-year-old football player unceremoniously threw his fiancée Melissa Lopez out of the home that they once shared, rendering her homeless, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting.
Sources close to the couple told Radar that Shields initially split from Lopez last year and did so in the cruelest of ways.
“He woke her up in the middle of the night, threw $300 at her and totally out of the blue ordered her to get out immediately,” the insider said. “He just told her he didn’t like her anymore.
“He told her that he had met someone else and she had to get out, right then and there. She gathered what she could and left and then lived out of her car for months and stayed on friends’ couches whenever she could.”
Shields apparently then had a change of heart back in January and told Lopez she could move back in and stay in the apartment until the lease expired in July while he went out of state.
But last week Shields told Lopez that he had changed his mind yet again and she was going to have to move out, immediately!
“Today he just showed up at the apartment with a moving truck — just out the blue — and moved all of the furniture and everything out of the home,” the source revealed.
“He hardly even said a word to her. He just ignored her and helped the movers get everything out. When she asked him what she was supposed to do or where she was meant to go he was just cold and said, ‘I don’t know.’
“Melissa moved to Green Bay to be with him. She was with him before he signed his big contract. They were together for three years and she really stood by him.
“She was using a car that he was getting for free, all he had to do was give the rental company a signed ball and jersey. And he had the company come and take the car away from her too even though he wasn’t even paying for it.
Because there are always a couple of sides to every story, I decided to do some checking around. Like most of these stories the truth is somewhere buried with Jimmy Hoffa.
What we do know is that Lopez went to FIU and was with Shields back when he was a 7th round Draft Pick. Shields did ask her to come to Green Bay and they were dating for about three years. I was also able to confirm the accuracy of the first $300 thrown in her face story.
The second kick out is up for debate, some said she cheated, some said Shields just found a new girl after his new contract, whatever the case for the second time he decided to kick her out on short notice.
She isn’t homeless anymore, she is back home in Florida living with her mom.
The reason I don’t feel sorry for her and this goes for any man or woman. If someone kicks you out of their house in the middle of the night, throws $300 in your face and forces you to sleep in you car and you still go back to them you deserve whatever you get.
Normal people don’t do that. It is cold in Green Bay, you just don’t throw your fiancée out of the house in the middle of the night like she is a hooker.
Lopez knew what type of guy she was dealing with and decided to go back. So, I don’t know how she can be surprised he threw her out again.
SMARTEN UP TWODELS