I get what Gilbert Arenas is saying, but to me it isn’t about forgiveness, because frankly Donald Sterling has no effect on me personally.
The Clippers players, fans, managment, Magic Johnson and others have been directly affected so they are the ones who either will forgive or not. Regardless of what decision they make, I support them either way.
Sometimes, people do things so egregious you simply can ever forgive them, I don’t think you should harp on it forever (see: Mike Vick), but you shouldn’t feel obligated to forgive. Here is what Agent Zero had to say.
“I’ll be the first to accept your apology.”
“As a man who’s made a mistake or two in life I know how hard it is to look at your self in the mirror when you let so many ppl down.”
“But for anybody who can’t and won’t accept his apology u need to look in the mirror because were not perfect..forgiveness will destroy racism not more hatred.”