Stephen A. Apologizes But Still Says Women Shouldn’t Provoke Men


Watch the video first……

Then here is exactly what Stephen A. Smith said on Twitter after hearing the backlash from Michelle Beadle and others.

This will be a long tweeted message, folks. So please stay with me and let me finish my complete thought before responding…b/c i’m ANNOYED.

Upon hearing what I had to say, although admitting I could’ve been more articulate on the matter, let me be clear: I don’t understand how on earth someone could interpret that I somehow was saying women are to blame for domestic violence. And when I saw Michelle Beadle a colleague I have profound respect for — tweet what she tweeted, enough is enough. Something needs to be said right now.

There is absolutely no excuse to put your hands on a women. REPEATEDLY, I said dudes who do that need to be dealt with. REPEATEDLY, I echoed when confronted by it in the past — when someone was stupid enough to touch a loved one of this man, raised by 4 older sisters, a mom and numerous female relatives and loved ones, that man was dealt with. From that point, I simply asked: now what about the other side.

If a man is pathetic and stupid enough to put his hands on a woman — which I have NEVER DONE, btw — of course he needs to pay the price.

Who on earth is denying that? But what about addressing women on how they can help prevent the obvious wrong being done upon them?

In no way was I accusing a woman of being wrong. I was simply saying what that preventive measures always need to be addressed because there’s only but so much that can be done after the fact….once the damage is already done. Nothing more. My apologies to Michelle Beadle.

And any woman out there who misconstrued what I said. I have always — and will always — find violence against a women every bit as horrific as women, themselves, find it. Always have. Always will, which my personal behavior exemplifies. I’ll strive to be more articulate in the future. But be clear, I wasn’t BLAMING women for anything. I was simply saying to take all things into consideration for preventative purposes. Period.

I don’t really see the difference in the two comments do you?

Frankly, no one should be provoking anyone via violent activities. Men and women should keep their hands to themselves at all times. If someone is abusing you, man or woman, call the police, get out of the relationship and walk away.

Specifically for men, regardless of the situation unless your life is in danger walk away.

As I said before, two wrongs don’t make a right, be the bigger person, your gender doesn’t matter.



  1. I couldn’t walk away in one instance, she kept attacking, I had to hold her against the wall to get her to stop punching, she couldn’t hit my face that way. All I saw in her eyes was absolute fury as I stood there, legs cross so she couldn’t kick me in the balls, which she had already done. As I saw she wouldn’t calm down, my plan was to run. As soon as I let go and started to run, glass ash trays were flying by my head. I got to my car and as I pulled out of the driveway, two heavy glass objects broke the windshield of my car. So, one of you bleeding heart feminists give me your wonderful BS solution to that instance. I should have beat the living hell out of her! But I didn’t, with a gash on my head and a broken windshield. Oh, both white if that matters.

  2. I thought Mr. Smith was a journalist . One would think that his diction and grammar would be of a higher caliber . But I guess this is the acceptable standard these days . Excruciating to read or listen to this supposed writer .
    Apparently Mr. Smith “provokes” ignorance on several levels .

  3. This is for Patrick —so don’t listen, he speaks in plain everyday english…if you want perfect english then maybe you should be watching/listening to the BBC network…what are your thoughts of his co-host? Do you think he doesn’t speak well either?

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