This is one of those things that will get an uproar from many no matter what.
While on The Breakfast Club, Fantasia talked about her relationship and gave a little advice saying
“At the end of the day, I’m the neck, my man’s the head. He can’t make any moves without his wife, you know what I mean? It all works together.”
Then she told women, “You have to learn how to submit.”
The first part isn’t really anything bad because that seems like that’s what a happy relationship would be like.
The part about submitting is what got people talking. Submit has a bad connotation when being used to describe relationships so it wouldn’t matter how logical her argument is.
She of course got some backlash on social media and her comments were called sexist.
Her husband has now come to her defense to explain what submission is like in their relationship.
She’s seen him be authentic, sees him submit to God and comes to her from a pure position. Because she sees all of this, she can let him handle most things. They talk and he gets her side of things and they move together.
He says he submitting isn’t him dictating, but more about being a leader in the house.
It’s a very good description on how they view submission and how they think a household should be ran.
Flip the page to see the full video.