Didn’t think we would be hearing from Will Smith’s intimacy coach but here we are.
After Will revolved that he had an intimacy coach and told her that he wanted to be with group of about 12 women that included Halle Berry, the intimacy coach is now speaking out on what she helps with.
The coach is Michaela Boehm and she says that she encourages her clients to visualize their fantasies before acting on them and take not of how they feel during the process. She also said gave insight into why couples cheat and get divorces while speaking with Insider saying
“In many people, the gap between what’s expected in a committed relationship and what they haven’t explored for themselves creates problems,” Boehm explained. “That’s why so many people get divorced or cheat, or do strange things within the relationship.”
“A lot of people just go along for all kinds of reasons,” she said. “There typically comes a moment where enough growing up or exploration has happened and the life chosen as a late teenager might no longer fit.”
“I don’t know where I saw it or some s*** as a teenager, but the idea of traveling with 20 women that I loved and took care of and all of that, it seemed like a really great idea,” Smith said. “And then, after we played it out a little bit, I was like, ‘That would be horrific. That would be horrific.’ I was like, ‘Can you imagine how miserable?’ What [Boehm] was doing was essentially cleaning out my mind, letting it know it was okay to be me and be who I was. It was okay to think Halle is fine. It doesn’t make me a bad person that I’m married and I think Halle is beautiful. Whereas in my mind, in my Christian upbringing, even my thoughts were sins. That was really the process that [she] worked me through to let me realize that my thoughts were not sins and even acting on an impure thought didn’t make me a piece of s***.”
Maybe she’s right, maybe she isn’t. Who really knows but it is kind of weird.
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