Halle Berry and her fiancé Van Hunt are discussing one of her sex-related non-negotiables.
The Crime 101 actress acknowledged that she has reached a stage in her life where some things have just taken precedence during her appearance on the Sex with Emily podcast, which was released on Tuesday, February 24.
In front of a live audience, 59-year-old Berry told sex and relationship expert Emily Morse:
“With age comes this, ‘I have zero f–ks to give attitude,’ ”
“We’re just done worrying about everybody else’s feelings, oxytocin leaves us, that which we have when we’re younger and we can take care of our babies and take care of our man, and take care of everybody else’s problems, that leaves our body and a beautiful thing happens,”
“We stop caring about all of that, so why is it better?”
“It’s better because I can now say to my partner, ‘Here’s what I want. Here’s what I don’t want. This feels good, this does not. You might have heard that that was a good thing to do to a woman’s vagina, but it’s actually not. Not mine, anyway,’ ”
“It’s having the confidence to show up for myself and to realize that I deserve an orgasm also. I know in our youth sometimes, everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done.”
“Sometimes you just want the pounding to stop, so you just say [comedically imitates orgasm] ‘I’m good too,’ and then you go find your vibrator in the bathroom, and you handle it yourself,”
After five years of dating, Berry and Hunt, 55, announced their engagement on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon on February 5. Berry gave an explanation of why their relationship in the bedroom is “the best” sex she’s ever had.
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