For a lot of guys, there comes a time when they change from being the “nice guy” to the IDGAF guy when it comes to relationships.
It most famously happened to me after my first love left me for a Lacrosse player. Once something like that happens you never truly go back to the way you were. Pistons Andrew Drummond seems like a nice kid and he had a crush on actress Jennette McCurdy. He used social media to help wooo her and it played out for the world to see.
It was a modern day Twitter love story, but alas McCurdy was playing him the whole time. Jocks and Stiletto Jill has the details, but here is the cliff notes version. She never liked him, thought he was weird, her friends thought he was weird, they had no chemistry, she didn’t like kissing him, he bought her a bunch of stuff (that she didn’t give back) and she broke up with him using her mother’s death as an excuse.
Oh, but that was after he bought her some jewelry, got down on one knee and ask her to be his girlfriend (she didn’t accept the jewelry).
Fast forward to the 20 min mark of the Pete Holmes Podcast to hear how she describe it.
Now, the whole time she wasn’t feeling him, she was playing up the relationship on Twitter, Instagram and TV. If a guy did that to a girl, he would be called a creep, but I doubt anyone says anything negative about Ms. McCurdy.
Drummond just learned a hard lesson that all guys have to learn at some point and I am sure it is one he will never forget.