Jennifer Lopez just dropped a truth bomb about her marriages and relationships and to her, she doesn’t believe any of her exes ever truly loved her. All those love songs, yachts, and million-dollar rings never meant love?
And the internet, of course, exploded with wild reactions.
“No,” she replied when asked by Howard Stern if she thinks she’s ever “truly been loved” during her recent appearance on The Howard Stern Show. Lopez did admit, however, that she has experienced truly loving someone else.
The mother of two explained, “What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable. … They don’t have it in them.” Lopez confessed, “They gave me what they had. They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want. The houses, the rings, the marriage. All of it.”
Part of the issue was also that Lopez “didn’t love myself” in those relationships. The Kiss Of The Spider Woman actress has been married and divorced four times, with the most recent instance being Ben Affleck, whom she reunited with 20 years after they first met and dated. She has 17-year-old twins, Max and Emme, with ex-husband Marc Anthony.
Lopez later admitted that her last divorce was “the best thing that ever happened to me.” She explained, “Because it really made me journey into— I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction. I had everything. I was like, ‘I’m gonna f**kin’ figure this s**t out if it kills me.’”
The 56-year-old has learned that the “core of the thing is you — it’s nobody else,” adding, “Now I’m able to sit here in a much more self-assured, self-aware way of the things that have happened to me, whether my mother, my father, in my own life, how I learned to love, how I felt neglected — all the things that are in your head as a person — and know who I am and just really appreciate that person.”
If J.Lo with all the money and assets can’t find real love, then it’s an eye opener for us broke folks!
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