Shaquille O’Neal has won almost everything an NBA superstar can dream of.
Four championships? Check. Hall of Fame career? Check. Lakers legend status? Absolutely. Massive shoes? Obviously.
But Shaq says there was one price he did not fully understand while chasing basketball greatness: his family life.
The Los Angeles Lakers legend has been painfully honest about how his obsession with becoming the best affected his relationships. And looking back, he appears to have some serious regrets.
Shaq spent years living the superstar life. Basketball came first, then came more basketball, then probably some basketball while talking about basketball.
“Are you ready to live that life? If you want to be great, my man, you gotta sacrifice everything. I’ve lost a family trying to be great.”@SHAQ having an honest conversation with his son Shareef O'Neal about pursuing an NBA career.
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The man was committed, but greatness has a funny way of demanding everything from you. Time, energy, attention. Sometimes even the people closest to you.
During a 2022 appearance on “The Pivot” podcast, Shaq went viral for admitting regret about his role in his divorce, and added, “I was lost. 76,000 square foot house by yourself, lost. No kids, go to the gym, nobody playing in the gym. We go to their room, nobody’s there. You start to feel it.”
Another comment Shaq made about his deteriorated family life during a conversation with his son, Shareef, on a recent episode of his “Post Moves” Netflix show is raising eyebrows on Tuesday.
Shaq was speaking to Shareef about the sacrifices it takes to play professional basketball, especially when it comes to building and sustaining a family.
“Are you ready to live that life? If you want to be great, my man, you gotta sacrifice everything. I’ve lost a family trying to be great,” O’Neal added.
Shaq has acknowledged that his relentless pursuit of NBA success contributed to the breakdown of his family life.
Shaq’s claim that he lost a family “trying to be great” has gone viral, as fans are raising their eyebrows about how he’s seemingly using his pursuit of greatness as an excuse for the detrimental decisions he made in his personal life.
This is especially true because it appears to contradict the accountability Shaq has shown in the past. He previously admitted that his own ego-fueled decisions and mistakes has led to his present situation.
O’Neal and his ex-wife of nine years, Shaunie Henderson, finalized their divorce in 2011.
“I wasn’t protecting [Shaunie] and protecting those vows,” he said about his marriage with Henderson. “Sometimes you live that double life and you get caught up in it.”
Shaq conquered basketball, but his reflections show that winning in sports does not always mean winning everywhere else.
Sometimes the biggest lesson comes after the final buzzer.
