Ella Freimann was slammed by critics after she revealed she will never split the bill with any man during dates and now, she is slamming critics back for labeling her ‘money-hungry gold digger’ and the Daily Mail;
A woman has responded to haters who call her a ‘gold digger’ and ‘selfish’ for insisting that ladies should ‘never split the bill during a date’ – because she believes guys who ask them to contribute ‘don’t value the time and effort they put into looking their best for the man.’
For Ella Freimann, 24, a dating coach from New York, being with someone who isn’t generous with his wallet is not an option – but she insisted it’s not because she’s ‘money hungry.’
Instead, the 24-year-old explained that believes potential suitors should always cover the entire check because she has high standards and ‘knows what she brings to the table.’
‘By splitting the bill, I’m agreeing to form a connection with a man who doesn’t know his role in a relationship and expects me to be 50 per cent of the man he’s not,’ she told NeedToKnow.co.uk recently.
‘I’ve learned that men who split the bill don’t value the time and effort a woman puts into herself to look her best for that man.
’50/50 men don’t understand that the woman’s investment was made prior to the date.
Ella explained that it’s less about the money and more about quantifying the effort that a man is willing to put in.
The dating coach added that by not contributing to the check, she feels like she is ‘keeping her dignity intact’ and ‘avoiding bad experiences’ with the man in the future.
Ella has been very outspoken about her stance on TikTok, where she’s gained more than 20,000 followers, and her controversial opinions on dating have sparked a slew of backlash for her.
Even so, she’s determined to end the negative stigma and put a stop to the misconceptions surrounding women who demand more from their men.
‘Most people think that we’re selfish, but I don’t think that’s the truth,’ she continued. ‘A high-value woman knows what she brings to the table and expects the same in return.
‘Another assumption is [that] we don’t work or we’re lazy, but a woman with high standards in dating always makes sure that the man is able to provide for both, in case she doesn’t want to work.
‘I’ve seen women building their businesses and focusing on themselves while being provided for by a man.
‘And [when it comes to] being reduced to our looks, although a woman’s beauty is a valuable aspect, we understand the value a woman brings to a relationship, such as emotional stability, nurturing qualities, and support.
‘Many studies have shown that men can’t live without a woman — we better a man’s life in all aspects, and since we know what we bring, we expect the man to bring his part.’
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