The photo above isn’t the couple, because that would be really messed up, if she found out that way. With that being said a user submitted his problem to NGTrends.com.
Here is what he had to say.
Hi NGTrends Readers,
I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.
If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.
If only life was as simple as it seems on social media, but the reality is we are all going through something be it professionally, personally or both.
My advice to the gentleman is to leave.
The reason is simple and something I have learned many years ago, you can’t make yourself love anyone. The heart wants what the heart wants. When you are 32 years old, you aren’t a kid anymore and frankly even if he stays he won’t be able to hide the fact forever he doesn’t want to be there.
Getting married is the worst thing he could do.
Hopefully, she gave the kidney because she wanted to, not because she wanted to keep him around. So, he needs to pack his bags, send her a thank you card every year and bounce.