This shouldn’t really surprise anyone.
According to studies done by YouGov, women are bigger cheaters than men. For years most thought that men cheated more, but the studies say that women are more prone to being adventurous in the bedroom, and they like being less monogamous when their needs aren’t being met in the bedroom.
“The new research is correcting false notions that women have lesser libidos, that women are more naturally monogamous and that it’s easier for women to partner for life,” said an anthropologist named Wedneday Martin. “Women don’t like s*x less [than men], but they do get bored of s*xual sameness.”
“Spontaneous desire is when you suddenly think, ‘It would be nice to have s*x.’ It comes over you like hunger or thirst…Responsive or triggered desire occurs when something suggests the idea of s*x to you — you’re watching or reading something, or a partner initiates a s*xual encounter, and you get turned on. For that type of desire, women’s libidos are every bit as strong as men’s. We’ve internalized this idea that men are the randier s*x and that’s untrue.”
Science is finding that women struggle more than men when it comes to staying faithful in relationships.
“Even when your marriage is good, you still miss that rush of feeling so excited you can’t eat or sleep when you’re having such an intense time emotionally and sexually with a new person. That’s what I kept going after, and what I couldn’t say no to.”
“[This research] explodes several of our most dearly held notions about female infidelity: that women cheat only when they are unhappy in their marriages; that unlike men, they seek emotional connection, not sexual gratification; and that women just ‘stumble’ into affairs,” says Martin.
“The women studied went on the site, created a profile, vetted candidates, met them in person and ‘auditioned’ them. This was a very intentional process. They wanted to find partners for sex. They reported being in sexless or orgasm-less marriages and they simply wanted what they couldn’t get at home. But most were otherwise happily partnered or married, and these affairs were a way for them to remain in their primary relationships. So, there goes the myth that women who cheat are unhappily married.”
There you have it, it’s science.
You can’t debate science. It appears that men are just bad at cheating, and women are very good at it, which is why they are able to do it more often.
Be safe out there, fellas.
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