Breaking news from the “wait, what?” department: Mike Tomlin says he walked away from the Pittsburgh Steelers not because of football reasons, not because of pressure, not even because of fans screaming from the stands, but because of loneliness. Yes, loneliness. The same job where 70,000 people watch you every Sunday somehow felt like a solo camping trip.
According to Tomlin, being a head coach can feel isolating, which is fair in theory. But let’s be honest. This is the NFL. You’re surrounded by players, assistants, media, and at least three guys holding clipboards who look very busy doing nothing. Lonely? Sir, you can’t even use the bathroom without someone asking about your third-down strategy.
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‘It’s probably not an overnight decision, but it’s probably not something that I can articulate or share with people,’ Tomlin said when asked by host Maria Taylor about the moment he decided to leave Pittsburgh.
‘There is a loneliness with leadership. I just thought it was a good time for me personally, and by that I just mean where I am in life.
Tomlin went on to stress that some of his most senior players deserved to benefit from the ‘excitement and optimism’ that comes with a new coaching appointment.
‘We didn’t have a lot of success in the playoffs in recent years,’ he admitted. ‘There are some veteran players there, man, guys like Cam Heyward, TJ Watt, and [Chris] Boswell, man. I thought they were worthy of the excitement and optimism associated with new leadership.’
But jokes aside, there’s a real point here. Leadership at that level is isolating. You can’t vent freely, you can’t complain publicly and you’re the face of everything. It’s like being the group project leader who does all the work while everyone else asks, “So, what’s the plan?”
So maybe Tomlin wasn’t being dramatic. Maybe he was just being human, even if it sounds a little strange coming from a man who commands an entire NFL franchise.
In the end, if loneliness really was the reason, you can’t blame him for stepping away. But still, next time, Mike, maybe try brunch with the coaching staff first. It’s cheaper than quitting your job.
